Queer Mindfulness

Bringing mindfulness to the LGBTQIA+ community

Welcome to Queer Mindfulness!

A community sangha and affiliate of the Insight Meditation Community of Berkeley. This website is a resource for mindfulness geared toward the LGBTQIA+ community. We are based in Oakland and Berkeley, California.

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About Our Sangha:

Format:

6:15-6:30 arrival time in person

6:30-6:40 Brief Introductions

6:40-7:00 Guided Mindfulness Meditation

7:00-7:30 Teachings shared by Ray and/or Eve

7:30-7:45 Discuss questions about the talk or challenges/fruits of our practice

7:45-8:00 Discuss some actions that might support LGBTQIA+ rights

ABOUT THE TEACHERS:

Ray Grimsinger (He/Him)
Ray is a proud queer/gay man. He received his certification from the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program by Jack Kornfield and Tara Brach. Ray has been practicing mindfulness meditation since 2018 and has taken the Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction Course (MBSR)created by Jon Kabat Zinn. He attended a course titled “The Path of the Bodhisattva” at East Bay Meditation Center where he received a certificate of completion, and formally received the 16 precepts and vows of the Bodhisattva. Ray was a volunteer coordinator for EBMC in 2023/24. He has studied the Awakening Joy program offered by James Baraz and has studied and learned from many great teachers, including Tara Brach, Joseph Goldstein, Jack Kornfield, Howard Kohn, Vinny Ferraro, James Baraz and Eve Decker. Ray considers himself to be a secular and spiritual Buddhist. In his teachings, he focuses on aspects of mindfulness that are based on over 2500 years of Buddhist practices and teachings. Ray believes in meeting our experiences with non-judgmental, spacious awareness focused on kindness and compassion.
Ray lives with his husband Steve in Oakland, California.

Eve Decker

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Eve began Insight Meditation practice in 1991, and has attended more than 50 silent retreats in the western Vipassana tradition of Buddhism ranging in length from 8-90 days. She is a graduate of the Path of Engagement (social justice and spiritual practice training) and Community Dharma Leader trainings at Spirit Rock Meditation Center. She is trained in the Hakomi Method (a mindfulness-centered somatic healing practice); Awakening Joy, developed by James Baraz; Transforming Judgmental Mind developed, by Donald Rothberg; and Mindful Self Compassion, developed by Kristen Neff and Christopher Germer. Eve teaches regular classes on a range of topics based in Buddhism and coaches people individually. She co-leads, with James Baraz, the Insight Meditation Community of Berkeley; she is a mentor for the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program headed by Jack Kornfield and Tara Branch; and she teaches for the family program at Spirit Rock Meditation Center. Eve is also an accomplished musician. She was a founding member of the feminist trio Rebecca Riots, and since then has released five collections of “Dharma Music” (songs inspired by Buddhist teachings). She has podcast titled LOVED: Mindful and Musical Perspectives on Daily Life.  Eve lives with her partner Diane in Berkeley, California.